Numbers 30:1-16 / People of Our Word
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1 Moses said to the heads of the tribes of Israel: “This is what the Lord commands:
2 When a man makes a vow to the Lord or takes an oath to obligate himself by a pledge, he must not break his word but must do everything he said.
3 “When a young woman still living in her father’s household makes a vow to the Lord or obligates herself by a pledge
4 and her father hears about her vow or pledge but says nothing to her, then all her vows and every pledge by which she obligated herself will stand.
5 But if her father forbids her when he hears about it, none of her vows or the pledges by which she obligated herself will stand; the Lord will release her because her father has forbidden her.
6 “If she marries after she makes a vow or after her lips utter a rash promise by which she obligates herself
7 and her husband hears about it but says nothing to her, then her vows or the pledges by which she obligated herself will stand.
8 But if her husband forbids her when he hears about it, he nullifies the vow that obligates her or the rash promise by which she obligates herself, and the Lord will release her.
9 “Any vow or obligation taken by a widow or divorced woman will be binding on her.
10 “If a woman living with her husband makes a vow or obligates herself by a pledge under oath
11 and her husband hears about it but says nothing to her and does not forbid her, then all her vows or the pledges by which she obligated herself will stand.
12 But if her husband nullifies them when he hears about them, then none of the vows or pledges that came from her lips will stand. Her husband has nullified them, and the Lord will release her.
13 Her husband may confirm or nullify any vow she makes or any sworn pledge to deny herself.
14 But if her husband says nothing to her about it from day to day, then he confirms all her vows or the pledges binding on her. He confirms them by saying nothing to her when he hears about them.
15 If, however, he nullifies them some time after he hears about them, then he must bear the consequences of her wrongdoing.”
16 These are the regulations the Lord gave Moses concerning relationships between a man and his wife, and between a father and his young daughter still living at home.
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Taking Our Vows Seriously (30:1–9)
It is fitting that laws for vows follow the regulations about festivals since people often made vows at festivals while offering sacrifices. Making a vow or promise before God is a serious matter. When we go through times of difficulty, it is tempting to offer up conditional promises to God, vowing to do something only if He answers our prayer requests. However, these laws remind us to measure our thoughts and words carefully. We should not make rash promises or unreasonable demands. Before we speak, we should ask the Holy Spirit to search our hearts and guide our words so that we are offering up vows that are pleasing to God rather than self-serving.
Recall a time when you made a specific vow to God, and consider whether you fulfilled it. How can you guard against the temptation of making rash vows or conditional promises?
Accountability for Our Vows (30:10–16)
Among the Israelites, the men bear the responsibility for the women in their household. The men not only need to provide financially but they also bear the consequences of any vows their wives or daughters make. These instructions demonstrate that God does not take vows lightly, and add a layer of accountability to protect His people from making rash vows. Today, we can all do our part in keeping each other accountable with our vows and promises to God. Whether friend, family member, or fellow Christian, we can share about our vows and pray for one another. We know that our God is the perfect promise-keeper, and we must strive to be like Him, fulfilling the promises that we make to Him and to one another.
Think about the promises or vows you have made recently. Who around you can help keep you accountable for them?
“Forgive us Jesus, and change us. May we love you so well and much we’ll speak 100 healing words today for every selfish, harming, careless syllable.”
– Scotty Smith
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Small Yet Powerful
The apostle James is creative with his metaphors regarding how we utilize our tongues. In James 3:4–5, he writes, “Take ships as an example. Although they are so large and are driven by strong winds, they are steered by a very small rudder wherever the pilot wants to go. Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts.” It truly is remarkable that a massive vessel carrying thousands of people can be controlled by a small rudder in the hands of an able captain. Similarly, the tongue is such a small part of the human body, but it can hold massive power.
The tongue can make great boasts, exaggerating to make ourselves look good. It can be sharp and unsparing, cutting a person down with words. We can use our tongues to make rash promises without thinking about the commitments we are making. There is so much potential for destruction in the words that come out of our mouths on a daily basis!
Thankfully, the opposite is also true. We can give life to those around us by encouraging and lifting one another up with our tongues. In my encouragements, I try to be specific because I know that positive words have greatly energized me. Each day, let us choose to give life with our words. Let us yield our tongues well, seeking to build up our brothers and sisters in Christ.
Written by Bob Koo